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Additionally if you read in Corey Wayne as a person he is deeply conservative/libertarian if thats your politcal slant, awesome but thats not going to help if your not in that camp. Wayne also says in his book that you should only take advice from men that have their shit together when it comes to women, good advice! That being said, is Wayne married? No, and his entire book really does give you advice but only if your looking for hookups or fun, yes some of it sounds good on the surface and there are a lot of quick and dirty rules that do help, but the metric fuckton of exceptions to his advice is staggering and I could think of tons of situations in my own friends groups where his advice would be bad, shunned or ridiculed.
Additionally the number 1 piece of advice he repeats ad naseum is that Women love Men whose feelings are unclear. Sure maybe on the first three dates, after that all your doing is being emotionally distant and you can't build a relationship on that, additionally if thats what you truly believe about women, then all you'll attract will be women who actually believe that, if You want a woman who actually is down with it, and wants you for you, then good luck finding one who loves it when your feelings are unclear.
Again not a great book, some of the advice was helpful but largely a lot of it was toxic, Wayne needs a Therapist and maybe a second revision.
...more I've red lots of relationship related books, this one it the best ever.
Author's YouTube channel provides tons of real life examples too. This book is pure gold and %100 real.
I've red lots of relationship related books, this one it the best ever.
Author's YouTube channel provides tons of real life examples too. ...more
I tried listening to the audio version. It was really painful. I'm not quite sure how bad things need to be for anyone to benefit from this book.
Do not understand the positive reviews.I tried listening to the audio version. It was really painful. I'm not quite sure how bad things need to be for anyone to benefit from this book.
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3% Man takes a super analytical approach to explaining how to get your weenie wet. The key bit of advice - the take home point, if you will - is that you should always be gauging a woman's interest in you. He gives tips on how to tell if you're in the, say, 80% interest range, or the 90% interest range. He really does use numbers and percentages throughout, and he really is that specific. He expects you to be able to know the difference between like an 80 and and 85. (For all I know, I could be at 25.) I was reminded of some wacky scores Pitchfork gives out, down to the tenth of one percent. As is the case with most of the rest of these books, I think this would especially appeal to someone on the autism spectrum (but not to the point where they can't read, obvs).
I will say that I found this to be surprisingly well put together for what it is. It reads like something that's been designed and edited by a legit publisher, not some guy who's got a set of instructional DVDs maybe he could interest you in. You could slap Russell Simmons' ugly mug on the cover and easily charge $20 for it. (That's how Russell Simmons books are made, right?)
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First, the p I cannot justifiably give this book more than 3 stars. For the most part I give the book this rating because of entertainment value not based on the effectiveness or impact of the content. First and foremost, I picked this book up from Amazon electronically when it was on sale for less than a dollar. I will attempt to provide a fair review of this book. I noticed that books like this one receive 'book ends' ratings. Either the readers love it at 5 stars or despise it with 0-1 stars.
First, the positive aspects of this book are based on the content and not the format. Mr. Wayne repeats over and over the need to romance your current relationship. As a man take charge and show your significant other that you care about being romantic and pay attention to her needs. Notice her and pay attention to her emotional state, don't take her love for granted. The best basic advice any man can have that loves a woman.
Next, I look at the negative aspects of this book. The author presents the material as an introduction to his website, blogs and Utube videos. Almost every section of this book feels like and introduction to a video from an infomercial. As I read the book I felt that I was missing out on actual information. I go to the videos and feel that Mr. Wayne is selling his book. I read the book and find myself stuck in the circular sales pitch. This is the worst part of the book. Reading this book as a single guy is also dangerous because it promotes playing the dating game. This may lead to exciting sexual affairs but not a healthy relationship with someone over a lifetime.
Common themes include:
1. Viewing women like 'cats' where guys need to master the ability to pay attention and then ignore her just enough so she remains interested. (Dangle that mental ball of string)
2. Play the role of the mysterious guy in charge. Focus on sharing only part of yourself so that you can stay in control (centered) and avoid boring the woman. (Be the 'bad guy' every woman desires)
3. Women have internal 'level of attraction scales' ranking guys from 1-10. Be sure to only date women that consider you 5 or higher. Consistently look for the cues outlined by Mr. Wayne to stay on the 5 or higher ranking. If you drop below 5, dump her first.
4. My ultimate goal is to get so close to her I ultimately end up inside her.
The rules of the game go on and on. Honestly we all play some level of 'the dating game' and everyone can gain from a book that makes the games explicit. The reality is we should approach this as adults. If you both agree to play the games then enjoy the fun! If there is only one player the other person will get hurt. It is in our best interest to recognize the game before it hurts our hearts or we hurt someone else. So, I admit that after reading a book like this you may feel like you need to take a bath in order to clean off the muck. Just remember that after you are clean it was worth the effort to avoid the pitfalls of those that play games just to get you in the bed (guy games) or take your money/manhood (women games).
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This book was everything and its the only book I would be ready to read again and again.
It's therapeutic, thought-provoking and challenges every man's social habits.
Courtship is one of the most important things in humanity, we all must court to be in a relationship, raise a family and pass on the circle of life. Courting effectively comes with reward of attracting the best candidates in your lif Mr Corey Wayne !!!.. legend, life-coach, entrepreneur, he's on my top 10 of people i look up to today.
This book was everything and its the only book I would be ready to read again and again.
It's therapeutic, thought-provoking and challenges every man's social habits.
Courtship is one of the most important things in humanity, we all must court to be in a relationship, raise a family and pass on the circle of life. Courting effectively comes with reward of attracting the best candidates in your life and the best opportunities that life may throw at us. ...more
I highly recommend reading this book if you truly want to understand how human behavior works. This book teaches you how to be authentic when applyIng its content In the real world without silly pickup artist routines.
One thing that I do have mention is the repetitiveness of this book. You will see recycled sentences over and ove Eye opening. Recently I went out on a date with a beautiful girl: it failed. I wish I would have had this knowledge before entering the date. I did everything this book said not to do. I was way to serious and had negative subjects brought up. That's a no-no. But fortunately, I landed on this book and will set the knowledge gained on the next date (not with the same girl, obviously).
One thing that I do have mention is the repetitiveness of this book. You will see recycled sentences over and over again. Concepts stated over and over again. Yet he wants you to read the title 10 to 15 times. If that were the case, this should have been minimized to a quick-read book. Not the 200 pages of material. Originally, I left this book at 5 stars, but just remembering this has brought it down to 4.
Don't ask the reader to read your book over 10 times when you have-line by line-copy and pasted your sentences over and over again.
The book is not bad though. It worth the time!
Annotations from Kindle:
p.03) The 3% man is one of the 3 men out of 100 that a woman meets and is drawn to because he understands who she is and better yet, understands who he is. In life, usually the top 3% in any field or area make most of the money, enjoy most of the success, have the best toys, date the most beautiful people and generally live the kind of lives most people only dream of.
p.06) Ironically, the more you focus on and passionately pursue your purpose in life, the more attractive women will find you in general.
p.18) The guy whose work really helped open my eyes was Doc Love. His website is Doclove.com. I encourage you to buy his dating dictionary. You can download his kindle version or order a paperback.
p.20) Wants you to read the book 10 to 15 times.
p.21) I now get a lot of looks from women, whereas before they never seemed to notice. It's all about carrying yourself with your chest out, your head back and a feeling of being proud of yourself.
p.24) Definite dates are the subtle difference that makes all the difference when it comes to setting dates women actually keep.
p.24) I let her do about 80% of the talking and I just kept asking her questions. That by the way, is how to remain mysterious and cause a woman to be even more curious about you and romantically interested.
p.32) It's always better if a woman thinks that she wants you a little more than you want her.
p.37) Women will chase you if you give them the space to miss you by not chasing them.
p.37) Men who chase women get rejected because the very act of chasing a woman is a submissive feminine quality.
N) You still have to chase for that first interaction and make that first date. That's your job.
p.40) The simple answer is that you basically have to treat the ones you do like just like the ones you don't like. Of course, there's a lot more to it than that, but it's a start.
p.44) A man should learn to take the direction in the relationship. It is funny when you go to the malls, and you can tell who wears the pants in the relationship.
p.45) Women don't want control! They want the man to make the decisions and make the plans. Woman just want to show up for a date looking hot, have fun and have the man lead things successfully into the bedroom.
p.46) A guy needs to make his mind up about what it is he wants to do. Women don't want to have to make all the decisions.
p.46) The masculine energy is all about purpose, drive, direction, and mission in life. The masculine energy is also about breaking through barriers.
p.52) When you first meet a woman, your goal is to make her laugh and feel comfortable. You need to talk to her. Better yet, you need to engage her in talking to you. Ask her questions. Get to know who she is. Keep the conversation light and positive.
p.52) The goal is to find out if this woman is really someone you even want to go out with. If you joke around with her, or you tease her and she's nasty to you-who cares? You are probably never going to see this woman again anyway, so what does it matter?
p.53) You never know when you are going to turn around and meet the next great love of your life. If you are this way everywhere you go, chatting up Misses Right when she shows up in your life will just like breathing. Google "Corey Wayne Improving Your Social Skills" and "Corey Wayne The Process of Improving Your Social Skills."
p.56) A woman has a higher level of attraction to a man she can have fun with and that can make her feel comfortable. If you are being too serious with her from the start, worrying about dating, relationships and labels, then you may be engaging your emotions too fast for her.
p.57) When a guy has found a woman he is prepared to talk to, the first thought in his mind should be: My goal here is to make her smile.
p.58) If you are single and looking to meet the next great love of your life, then one thing you should never ever do is get hung-up on just one woman until she has earned it.
p.59) Busy, successful men communicate abundance. They come from a place of abundance. If things don't work out with one girl, it's no big deal. There is another bus every 15 minutes.
p.61) Especially in the first stages of a relationship and dating, it is important to keep things light-hearted. Keep it funny. Joke around. Keep your conversations positive and steer it away from negativity. Hang out, have fun and hoop up! Keep it simple.
p.63) This is sales skills 101. People love to talk about themselves. The quickest way to get someone to like you is to ask them questions about themselves or their opinions and be a good listener.
p.64) Getting back to what I said earlier, when a guy meets a woman, he can instantly have a really high level of attraction to her. Women take a lot longer to fall in love. A woman needs to trust a guy before she will open herself up to even the possibility of committing her emotions.
p.70) In order to entice a cat to your side, you have to be patient and let it come to you. If your moves are too sudden, too quick, or too aggressive, you will send the cat fleeing from your side into hiding.
p.73) You have to show a woman that you are a mystery. You have to be a strong man who does what he wants and marches to the beat of his own drum.
p.87) If you are uncertain of yourself, how can you expect to keep the ideal woman of your dream?
p.92) For the purpose of this exercise, take the column and write down: Okay, if I don't change all the things I have been doing in the past, here are all the consequences. List all the painful things that will happen:
p.100) You goal is to find out as much as you can about her and give her as little information about yourself as possible. Respond to her questions with light, joking answers and ask her another question. Google "Corey Wayne Pickup & Date Questions That Build Attraction"
The idea is not to interrogate her with questions like a robot, but to ask questions that elicit interesting and fun answers that can lead the conversation into fun and unexpected directions.
p.101) You are never there to talk about your past relationships or anything that will make her feel bad for you. That is never okay.
p.113) Masculine energy is about purpose, drive, mission, succeeding, accomplishing, breaking through barriers, achieving goals, et cetera.
p.117) Do not talk on the phone or text for hours. That is what dating is for. Make the date and talk there.
p.123) If you go out with a woman who has a high level of attraction in you, she will be asking you tons of questions, and is going to be totally into you. Those are the types of women you want to spend your time with. They make it easy.
p.133) Often make it a point when I am initially dating someone, to be the first to end the date. Again, I want to leave her wanting more. It is like the pro football player that retired at the top of his game. Here we have had this great date, and the anticipating has been building, building, building… and then I'll ask the waiter for the check, and I'll pay.
p.136) If a guy starts talking about all these accomplishments, what it says to a woman is that he is insecure about who he is as a man. It's approval-seeking behavior.
p.138) Do not overly compliment a woman, except maybe to tell her she looks nice when you pick her up or meet up, or that you had a good time at the end of the date.
p.139) On a date you will be a gentleman. Open the doors and the car doors. Walk her across the street and everything else.
p.140) Do not touch hands unless she initiates the first move by brushing up against you or something obvious.
p.144) If you went out with her on a Thursday night, you won't call her until Monday or Tuesday to ask her out for your next date.
p.160) How do you when it's time to go steady? When she is emotionally ready, usually by week 7 of dating she will bring it up. Until then, hangout, have fun and hook up.
She'll let you know when she wants to go steady. Keep dating other women until she tells you she wants to be exclusive.
p.162) Don't talk about your future together. You let you bring up these types of conversations. Let her think it's her idea.
p.176) You should read David Deida's "The Way of The Superior Man."
p.178) I'm the man and I set the tone...always. If I were to give into her attempt at drama and negativity, I'm letting her be the leader.
p.193) You do not buy a woman gifts. Why? They come off as a bribe for sex. You really don't buy a woman anything until she is completely head over heels in love with you.
p.205) The simple concept is that what you do to get your lady to fall in love with you is what you have to do to keep her. If you don't date your wife or girlfriend, some other guy eventually will.
p.214) Even the guys that really understand women can't tell you specifically what you have to do. They just own their masculinity, they own their strength, and they own their core, their purpose and direction in life.
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Content delivers what the topics promises.
I liked Corey Wayne's way of compassionate communicating the wisdom and understanding about women. One of the best books about understanding women what I've read: now I know I do not know anything and got reminded about 'excellence is a habit' - thought by Aristoteles.
19.12.2018 Wow, I finished this the second time and decided to start a third run. I still made bunch
17.12.2018 It was so good book, I started reading it again right away once I finished it.Content delivers what the topics promises.
I liked Corey Wayne's way of compassionate communicating the wisdom and understanding about women. One of the best books about understanding women what I've read: now I know I do not know anything and got reminded about 'excellence is a habit' - thought by Aristoteles.
19.12.2018 Wow, I finished this the second time and decided to start a third run. I still made bunch of notes and found many ways to apply the thoughts and lessons to practice.
Much of what I've learned and applied from this book are related to cultivate positive attitude, unconditional love and abundant mindset
22.12.2018 Third read, and I've gotta say wow! This book is probably the best books about love and growth that I've read.
3% man manages to combine similar framework that is presented in "The Road Less Traveled" by Scott M. Peck, and "The Seven Levels of Intimacy" by Matthew Kelly. Yet it's practical and not theoretical at all.
There is also spiritual aspect to this book, I happened to notice that what Corey Wayne Suggests is very close to what for example Bhagavad Gita teaches about non-attachment.
3% man would be a giver. "Give and take" by Adam Grant is one of my favorite books and that framework overlaps with this very well as well.
What I can say, I'll probably read this book about fifteen times as Corey Wayne suggests?
25.12.2018 Relationships are about giving.
On a fourth time I focused to thinking about what kind of relationship I really would like to have and on the other hand what not to have.
29.12.2018 Understanding better what creates attraction.
Above all masculine energy is about the fulfillment of purpose, where as feminine energy is about bonding, opening up to receive the love.
31.12.2018 Thinking about what kind of life I want to live, what kind of relationships that would mean. Most importantly what I am currently doing or not doing - why I do not already have it?
Corey Recommends the exercise by Tony Robbins, which I've been reflecting about.
I've come to understand that this book is literally about starting from yourself, becoming the person that you deserve to be and through that you can give so much more to the other people as well. This is the basis of relationships.
4.1.2019
Learned
- Evil is good gone wrong - think from other persons point of view first.
- What is quickest way to get attention? Remove yours.´
- Love yourself, so that you feel like you deserve an awesome human.
6.1.2019
- Women test to get your attention
- Level five attraction level = "like moths to the fire"
- Polarity of relationship
9.1.2019
- Attraction is not a choice
- It would be wise only to spend time with those level 5 or above attraction level
- What does relationship of my dreams look like?
15.1.2019
- What can we give to a relationships?`
- We are all looking to receive or give love
- Ending dysfunctional relationships
30.5.2019
- Attraction is not a choice
- What can I give & joy of giving
• Polarity is the key to maintaining desire. "She can be playful, loving, and an absolute joy to be around. The guy is her rock, and she is his joy."
• Weathering the storm. "Women are like the ocean, and guys have these little rowboats or canoes. A guy wi
• Polarity is the key to maintaining desire. "She can be playful, loving, and an absolute joy to be around. The guy is her rock, and she is his joy."
• Weathering the storm. "Women are like the ocean, and guys have these little rowboats or canoes. A guy will be just cruising along and it's a nice, sunny, beautiful day, and he's thinking: wow this is really great.
The ocean is flat, then all the sudden, from out of nowhere it becomes like a hurricane. There are ten-foot waves everywhere. The guy, no matter what his lady is doing, has to remain centered. In other words, he can't let her capsize his boat. He can't let her sink him. He can't let her get him off his path and his purpose in life. And he can't - no matter what - let her get him out of his masculine." 213
The ten disciplines of love:
1. Selflessness
2. Loving no matter what
3. Being yourself
4. Presence and playfulness
5. Positive intent
6. Loving truth
7. Freedom
8. Daily passion and intimacy
9. Utilization (spirituality and personal growth)
10. Gratitude
(From pages: 251-255)
Books and movies mentioned:
Cinderella man
The way of the superior man, David Deida
This book is the bible of dating, romance, and relationships. It will transform your mindset as you read it, to become who you really are in your masculine core, and in your heart of hearts. Not only will you develop a better understanding of yourself and what it is to be a man, but you will develop a better relationship with the entire world around you, including beautiful women, and you will know how to attract and court them, with conf
Book of my dreams. I'd recommend this to any and all men.This book is the bible of dating, romance, and relationships. It will transform your mindset as you read it, to become who you really are in your masculine core, and in your heart of hearts. Not only will you develop a better understanding of yourself and what it is to be a man, but you will develop a better relationship with the entire world around you, including beautiful women, and you will know how to attract and court them, with confidence and ease, from meeting them to as far as your relationship goes - the way has been mapped out for you, clearly and in a way that is easily understood. You'll see results before you even finish reading, and even more so as you practice and apply your new superior mindset. Rereading is essential, and results become exponential, the more you reread it.
...more This kind of books should be asked as mandatory readings in schools and universities. Yeah its that good.
Read it!!!
There are still misogynistic stuff in this book but it's far from it's core message - it really is a book about relationships in general, how listening to your partner and evaluating your experience leads
Imagine my surprise, given the awful title, subtitle, book cover, writing in general and every weird vibe the first look at this book gives to be most useful and the least misogynist book of male-oriented relationship books I've read (from The Manual, Mark Manson's Models, No More Mr. Nice Guy).There are still misogynistic stuff in this book but it's far from it's core message - it really is a book about relationships in general, how listening to your partner and evaluating your experience leads to better, long-lasting relationships. Again, it's not about the person you are chasing, it's about you, how to listen to your partner, evaluate your status and be a better man.
IF ONLY the author was an actual writer - there are lots of repetition, personal advertising, links to supplementary articles which makes it sometimes an awful reading experience. But it's written as a personal journey and experience and I liked that style - the author reflects opportunities where could have had listened to voiced problems better and what to take from his failed relationships.
His core values are subtly hidden, but mostly align, I suppose, with most self respected and decent men.
For future relationship-oriented book writers - please use less flashy book covers, less flashy titles, don't try to advertise these books as something that will instantly make you a "pussy magnet" and practice actual writing - it's definitely more than that and not about picking up woman at all, and the "3 percent" (okay, maybe more) of content is sound and it would be less embarrassing for more picky and sophisticated readers to actually keep this book in their bookshelves and write a Goodreads review about it
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I cannot say enough about this book. It is the best self help book in regards to relationships that I have ever read.
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This book will change your perspectives and mindset. I will read this book 13 more times. Thank you coach Corey!
What interesting about the book is that it also provides the mechanism, the nature of what happens behind a woman's mind when certain actions of men are occurred.
Would love to write more, but my *no spoiling* rule stops me from doing that.
Last word, I highly recommend this book for those who are having a confusion of why all the things they've done and are doing lead to very unwanted results with women. Great, great book!
What interesting about the book is that it also provides the mechanism, the nature of what happens behind a woman's mind when certain actions of men are occurred.
Would love to write more, but my *no spoiling* rule stops me from doing that.
Last word, I highly recommend this book for those who are having a confusion of why all the things they've done and are doing lead to very unwanted results with women. ...more
The frequent references to his website at the end of each and every segment are distracting in the audiobook, but the advice is worthwhile and straddles the marketing
Felt blue-pillish, but if you have a need it will speak to you. I like Corey and he seems legit, referencing his own life and mistakes. I've seen deeper, more thorough explanations, or crazier situations, than have made it to the mainstream, but that ultimately would not be as helpful (or healthy) for most of you as the advice here.The frequent references to his website at the end of each and every segment are distracting in the audiobook, but the advice is worthwhile and straddles the marketing of pickup vs long term relationship advice.
I prefer the mating grounds podcast by Tucker Max, especially the Helping Joe segments.
I came this topic fascinated by evolutionary psych/bio and human sociology. Most people can just experience and love through their own intentions and do fine in the world.
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Would you like to find out how you can attract the woman of your dreams and keep her interested in you for a long-term, committed relationship? Or perhaps you've been trying to get an ex back, but without much success? Or you would like to be the chasee instead of the chaser?If you can answer any of these questions with yes then this book might be just the book to read for you! Check out my review on this awesomebook to find out more: https://smartbookreviewblog.wordpress....
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- he repeated the information several times
- he mentioned his past relationships several times
You can learn a lot from this book, but I can't stand it if you read some peace of information 5-10 times.
The advice he gives is great btw.
The author included some really good information, but- he repeated the information several times
- he mentioned his past relationships several times
You can learn a lot from this book, but I can't stand it if you read some peace of information 5-10 times.
The advice he gives is great btw.
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Fuck all the way off. Fuck right off this planet, and miss me with this bullshit.
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